Some risks are not visible to the naked eye. So-called safer moves can pose dangers too!

ORAL SEX: If your man has oral herpes- even he does not have a sore- you can contract the virus on your genitals through oral sex. And if you go down on a man with genital herpes (not necessarily an active infection), you may get it on your lips. Fellatio can also pass HIV or gonorrhea to your throat. Use condoms and ask partner to be tested.